NO Commun-icado IS Communicado ..

Random thoughts ...This is a long one ... come back later if you are busy! LOL!

NO communication IS communication and I try to be impeccable with my words and I respect others as best I can.

I'm an honest woman and attract myself to "birds" of the same feather ... or I fly away~

What does that mean ...?...
A. When one asks or in a subtly suggest wanting to know something about me (out of respect) I acknowledge the inquiry (most times quite literally).
B. I usually respond in 1 to 3 different ways.
1. Be open (and honest) of course and give them what they are looking for ... an answer, not a run around.
2. I will say, I don't want to talk about that right now OR I don't want to talk about that period.
3. I don't have the words right now ... I need to find them and get back to you ... sometimes the words come right after I say that sometimes not. This response usually means there is a worry of misinterpretation, rejection or I have many strong emotions attached to the subject matter.
4. Timing for some matters is everything .. I have learned to wait on opening up the can on some matters .. again .. timing is key.
5. I think outside the box ... I may start with an answer then an elaboration of thoughts, a philosophical whimsical trail of insights and more are very likely to evolve.
6. Sometimes my mind goes bike riding and I forget what I'm saying .. rabbit trails ... silly jaunts to blah blah blah...THEN suddenly I find the original path again and I finish my thought... I almost always finish a thought. << (#6) ADD/ADHD characterisitcs in me ~
7. In regards to honesty and communication ... I try to be my own best friend ...
RULE IN LIFE: Why be in denial ... why not listen to others opinions of me (unless they are being ugly wicked and have no loving purpose).

This insight is priceless .... what I just shared is the foundation to any and almost every conversation one could have with me at this juncture of my life... we all change and grow ... all that is listed above may change someday ... but for now.. this is who I am.

A pet peeve I have in life is when people avoid ... skirt and the like. Upon a detection of things like this I immediately encode in my brain that experience. I then proceed with fascination as to how many masks I will get to see this person put on. I wait to see if the real person emerges ... we can all tell when one gets real ... we all feel it in our souls ...

I love people ... I am fascinated by the different personalities .... truly evil people should make anyone get self defense training ... truly loving people re-fresh me immensely.